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Get unstuck quickly with curated guides, FAQs, and support options. Whether you’re setting up schedules, splitting expenses, or messaging co-parents, we’ve got your back with calm, clear steps.

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Scheduling & custody
Expenses & receipts
Messaging etiquette
Q

Quick Answer

How do I split an event?

Calendar

Use the calendar, click the event date, and choose “Split” to break custody into the exact days you need. Edits sync for both parents instantly.

Updated for the latest release

Guides

Start with these essentials

Short, actionable walkthroughs to keep both parents coordinated. Each guide is built on the same calm, organized language you see across Tanseti.

Getting Started Guide

Set up your shared calendar

Create recurring custody patterns, add bank/school holidays, and keep colors consistent.

  • Use Schedule Setup to define alternating weeks or custom rhythms.
  • Mark bank and school holidays so they’re non-editable and visible to both parents.
  • Use color coding to spot who’s on duty at a glance.

Track expenses with clarity

Log receipts, approvals, and balances without awkward conversations.

  • Add a receipt to every shared cost; the other parent can approve or reject with a note.
  • Balance cards show who owes what across all time and per-year snapshots.
  • Use per-page controls to scan history quickly without overloading the list.

Communicate with confidence

Documented messaging keeps conversations focused and timestamped.

  • Use chat for decisions; change requests and approvals stay linked to the schedule.
  • Unread counts and notifications refresh automatically—no manual refreshes needed.
  • Keep tone calm: short messages, decisions documented, receipts attached where relevant.
Onboarding

Three steps to harmony

Follow this quick path to get both parents aligned. Each step keeps language simple and avoids friction.

1. Add your family

Create or join a group, add children, and set primary/secondary parents. Invitations keep everyone synced.

2. Shape the schedule

Use Schedule Setup to pick patterns (2-2-3, alternating weeks) and lock in holidays so past dates stay immutable.

3. Share & track

Log expenses with receipts, use chat for decisions, and rely on dashboards for balances and unread items.

FAQ

Answers in two sentences or less

Use the calendar, click the event, and choose the split option. If the date is in the past, Tanseti prevents changes to keep history reliable.
Yes—bank and school holidays are pulled into the calendar and marked as non-editable. Both parents can see them; edits are blocked to avoid conflicts.
Attach a receipt when you add an expense. The other parent can approve or reject with a reason, and balances update automatically.
Unread counts refresh automatically through Livewire events. If you keep a tab open, new messages still update without manual reloads.
No—Help lives on the public site, so you can get answers before signing up. Sign in when you’re ready to apply changes to your family.

Need a hand?

We’re here to help you in minutes, not days

Send a note with context (schedule, expenses, messaging) and we’ll reply with a clear next step. Support stays friendly, professional, and concise.

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Phone

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